this article is focus on helping student especially young ones out of the major career excuse and lie student make.
Hey! So you are stuck still stuck in the point of deciding what you really want to do with your life as a student?, or probably you had just made the biggest mistake of your life by choosing a career that is not favorable to you. here is a tip i brought for you today, its the top 5 career excuses and lies student make
It is really terrible to hang onto something you really don’t like and to keep telling yourself that oh! My days are going to come, once I graduate from the frustrating engineering I am studying I will go into music or probably you are a writer yet you are stuck in one place that you cant even think of writing.
Well this article simply give out the major career excuse and lies student make and how to know if you are a victim of wrong career.
Let me tell you a bit of my story. .growing up as a boy my dream was to become an engineer and a writer, to shake the world with inventions but along the line because of money, I got stuck in a teaching job I didn’t like. Not because teaching is wrong but because I didn’t want to be there. That wasn’t my passion but the pay my friend was encouraging so i stayed there days after days turn into months then years until i found out that i was lieing to my self and i was killing my passion with the wrong career.
So if you have been or you are right there
now, it isn’t a big deal. But it is time to change up .
ago, I met a boy during our jamb
registration process he was crying and filling the jamb registration form so I
walk up to him and try to see what the problem was, then he told me that his
mom wants him to study economics but he wants to be an engineer… and I was
dumb founded! Nothing to do at this point. At last he later decided to take his
own path to destiny because his mom wouldn’t be there to bear what ever
consequences the decision brings…(I didn’t say disobey your parents o).
HERE ARE THE TOP 5 MAJOR CAREER EXCUSE AND LIE STUDENT MAKE
EITHER WAYS I AM STILL AFFECTING LIVES
WHAT WILL MY PARENTS AND PEOPLE THINK
THE CAREER IS REALLY SECURE
PEOPLE PREFER ME THIS WAY
Money! Money!! Money!!!…. is all that
matters in the country . Money is a vital tool in the world today because with it you might look
successful even if you are not fulfilled.
But money also is deadly if you chase after
it with all your life, it can be a trap. Most student tell are fond of telling
themselves that money is the way forward. Which might not totally be a lie but following
the path of money will lead to a typical regret. As a student and a young
person, you are made to follow your passion and whatever gives you happiness. Your
choice of career should be based on your likes and dislike, your love and hate.
Money does not create way for the future but it create insecurity, I guess you have seen people with high collar
jobs who aren’t happy.
Sometime ago, I met this young banker who is a good singer. He was so good in music that even while working inside the bank, he would start humming some songs and people who came for transaction would join him in his humming . And one day, he was ask a question by a customer and the question was “why are you a banker?” for sometime, he pause, he couldn’t answer the question why he was a banker and later why we were talking, he told me that he became a banker because in his state, bankers were the highest paid job and so for the money the went into banking. after a brief chat, he found that truly he wasnt happy with his job and that he had made a huge mistake by following the money instead of the talent but what can he do?. At this point he was left with the choice to decide.
Your pursuit of money as a student will only make you hate Mondays and i guess this is the first career excuse and lie student make
2. EITHER WAY, I AM STILL AFFECTING
the second career excuses and lie student make is that they are still affecting life. The main purpose of a man on earth is to assist another man. A wise man once said “as we rise, we should give others a hand to stand up”.
This part always affect student who are
gifted but one way or the other they switch path. One thing you should know as
a student, is that you really cant please everybody. No matter how much you
try, there will be some people that won’t care about what you did.
Trying to affect the lives of others on the
detriment of yours is not really a wise idea.
3. WHAT WILL MY PARENTS OR PEOPLE THINK?
Competition is a major problem of which
young people are always face with. When choosing a career for your self as a
student, you should keep in mind that this is totally you, career success and
goals are all you. People will continue to think what they really want to, so
you are left with the opinion of what do you really want.
You might say oh! My parents won’t be happy
but I can assure you, if you sit with what you want and make a name and game
out of it, your parents will be proud of you.
if you dont want to get stuck among the top 5 career excuse and lie student makes, i bet you should take out time to go through this. Those days, people go for trending things and occupation but these things has change. Maybe dad and mum are still thinking like those old days but you need to show or prove to them a reason why you are right.
4. THE CAREER IS REALLY SECURE
First of all , no job is actually secure especially when you doing
what you don’t like. Now with the invention of artificial intelligence, I guess the job of man are now limited. What
five customer care representative would do in a day, a smart A.I will do it in a minute, even better faster
and smarter. All humans like comfort and fast root to things so would you
prefer standing on a queue in the bank and wait for customer care
representative to attend to you or you prefer sitting in you house and with
just a call your bank issue is settled?.
Well we both already know the answer. Note that no career is really secure therefore find your path.
5.PEOPLE PREFER ME THIS WAY
among the top 5 career excuse and lie student make, the most terrible is people prefer me this way. This is a one hell of big lie I hear almost every day. Well I prefer just hooking up here because people love me this way. But let me surprise you, no one cares! People dont care about you truly they only care about what they want.
Let’s do this, if I am right hit me up on
whatsapp and let’s be friend and if I am wrong dont😈.
First wear a one colour dress to class,
work or around people who you think loves you this way
Wear anything you feel like and just try to
be friendly with everyone. Try to make them notice you
Walk up to all the people you talk to and
chatted with from day one and ask them the colour of dress you wore few days
ago. Start with day one then day two.
I bet they might slightly even remember
that of day two.
What’s my point, no one really prefer you better than you. As I said earlier, dont make others happy on the detriment of your own happiness. Ensure to carry out the above steps and I hope to hear from you.